Do not be trapped by the success of others

How much money that you must have in the bank account?

How big of your house that you must have?

How many celebrities that you must be closed?

If you listen to others, you could feel insufficient. They have something that you don’t have (and vice versa), People usually chase what they have not had yet. That is why success is the biggest failure. Even the people who called themselves as the successful cannot be really successful. The mind like stop compare, and they have never been satisfied on what they have had so far.

I have never seen the successful people. There are a lot of the success chaser.

Happiness won’t come to they whenever they chase something. it won’t come when you chase it. That is the nature of happiness.

Here is the art of doing nothing. Happiness comes when you do nothing. That sounds paradox, right? because people believe so much that what they are chasing will make them happier in the future but there is the another way you can be happy without doing so many things according to your continuous thoughts.

First, Aware of yourself. What do you have had so far? Appreciated them. Even your smile is counted.

Second, Aware of people around you especially people you love. Are they living well? If yes, count it.

Third, Aware of things around you. Can you create the metaphor? Be creative.

Happiness comes easily when you observe, realise and appreciated. You don’t even need to pursue anything. it is not worthy that your mind told you. With this way, you compare to no one. You are at the very present.

Do not follow the success that mind defines.

Life exists without purpose. You might think that if life has no purpose, life has no meaning and value but as mentioned, nothing is worthy to be pursued after all even happiness.

Don’t pursue happiness. Let it come to you while you relax and realise things within and around you.

Written by Jade the Mystic

The psychology and mindfulness writer helping you leverage your mind, understand life, reduce stress, relax and learn to heal your body and soul with meditation through life quotes, articles, books, speeches and advises.


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