The first one is the YES man. Whatever come to him, he always accept it without any doubt. This happens since you were the baby inside your pregnant mother. She ate food and it came to you. If you became doubt whether it is poisonous or not, you should have been died before you were born. After you were born, you are easily taught. The society has already prepared things you have to learn.
Whatever the society wants you to be, you will be him starting from the very first stage, the YES man with certificates!
There are so many YES men in the world. They are the majority of the society, so the minority is the NO men. Some of YES man will turn to say no after they become doubt in the reason why they have to do whatever the teachers, parents and the government have told them for centuries. Why do we have to go to school and temple? Why do we have to certificates? Why do we have to comply? For the society, they are the big trouble. They are rebellious individual.
The intelligence comes to them through the questions and they find the answer by themselves which is NO.
From YES man to NO man, this transition is called evolution. The majority accepts everything without doubt. The NO men refuse everything after they doubt and say NO by themselves. However, the majority stuck with YES. The minority stuck with NO. Anyway, they cling on their answers but the wise cling to nothing. They won’t say yes and no. There is no need for yes and no.
God is the great example. The majority believes that God exists. The minority is against that God doesn’t exist but the wise throw these question whether God exists or not because when you face the totality. The question will be dropped.
When the difference can be harmonized, the totality exists.
What you have said yes or no so far is just for the part of the oneness but with oneness, you can see that even if we are different, we can love each other and become one!
That is when the enlightenment comes when you realize the totality.