Love and freedom seems to be the opposite. When you love someone, you needs to take care of your partner, for example. Th couple demand each other to do this and do that to spend the valuable time together. The truth is that life is more than spending time to the couple. I told you this because eI would like you not to miss your whole life.

All people have only one life. Regardless of the life expectancy, one life is enough for everyone. Each has the same 24 hours a day but it is up to you on how activities or thoughts you dedicate.

Naturally love has no problem. It nourishes people’s hearts.

However, seems that not all people feel that they don’t success in love. Some tell that love will blind us but that has never been true. Love has never done that. It is the ego that does not love.

Living in this society, love is determined by position, roles, responsibilities, and even laws in the code. Sadly that love has never been involved with these rubbishes. We ourselves create the custom around it. We create the illusion around it. If you love someone, you must do this but don’t do that. You “have to” marry someone and take care of her forever.

No, these rules are not the nature of love.

If you really love someone, you will take care of him or her naturally without being forced.

You don’t need any laws from the society to force you. When i mention “society”, I mean from the couple, community, nation to the whole world. There is no rule for love that you have to keep in touch with her everyday, watch the movie together every week, report your partner every time on what you are currently doing otherwise there is no freedom!

Freedom is, to be honest, what people call out. When they have partners, they feel that they lose freedom because of these rules, and the position the society gave to them. Could you see the point? If you can drop any conditions and any customs that cover love, it is possible that love is always with freedom. That is the real love.

Love is like the angel but love without freedom is like the angel without wings.

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Written by Jade the Mystic

The psychology and mindfulness writer helping you leverage your mind, understand life, reduce stress, relax and learn to heal your body and soul with meditation through life quotes, articles, books, speeches and advises.

6 comments

  1. That was wonderful again, Jade. Love doesn’t blind, but even is the tool to clarify the view. Only through love we understand and see the deeper connection in everything… which shows us that we are free spirits to enjoy our life through love.

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    1. Exactly, Erika. Actually, the phrase “fall in love” is not the exactly right. Love actually makes us so light like the bird feature, so it will be blown higher by the wind rather than falling to the ground.

      Understanding is the another point you raised and I am glad you did. Love needs understanding too. It is the courage to connect to each other. ; DDD

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      1. The courage to connect to each other, right. That means the willingness to open up for the other one.
        Somehow that way ‘falling in love’ is not that wrong, when I let myself simply fall confidently into the heart of the other one. You can see it from both sides. Anyway… love is so much, isn’t it. ☺

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