How to feel loved?

Dear readers,

Please do not ask anything for love even its definition.

Even Winnie the Pooh knows that you don’t spell it. You feel it.

(He nails our lives very well. I love this bear)

Everyone wants to be loved. It will be great that we can get anything we want.

but if we are all the takers, who will be the givers?

and that is the hell on the earth when there are all takers.

People will compete to each other for food, money, fame and everything.

They are competing each other. To become someone important is to be loved. If I were the superstar, people would greet me friendly. If I were the president, I would be respected. If I were the billionaire, all eyes will look only for me.

However, that is the wrong idea to be loved.

Those ones they want to become are not themselves but their ego, their false substitute. When they are given, they misunderstood that people always have to give them compliment, respect and money as their roles society determined. Their misunderstanding is the problem. Their ignorance is the cause of their ego.

The takers will never be loved. Actually, they are not able to be.


What you need to be loved is not to wear the mask the people please.

but to feel appreciate when you are given.

You “feel” love.

From the very start, you have nothing.

Now you have something.

With this thankful feeling, you feel “enough”. You have been already full. If you still keep the leftover, you will be in trouble. That is when you “have to” be the giver. That is when you are truly loved.


The ones who give not because they have.

They give because they once feel having nothing.

With love,

Jade the Mystic

Written by Jade the Mystic

The psychology and mindfulness writer helping you leverage your mind, understand life, reduce stress, relax and learn to heal your body and soul with meditation through life quotes, articles, books, speeches and advises.

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